Friday, January 8, 2010

Boys dont cry (but cried out)


Well guys..lets talk about guy and what they're doing in the facing of broken hearted ..:D

Although women sobbed quietly while men just quiet, it does'n mean the adams are robust in the facing of breaking up. In fact, according to one study, men are always more mellow than women.

Several studies have shown levels of depression, stress, and anxiety worse men than women after the breakup. Launched yahoo, Friday (20/4/2007), this is probably due to the nature of male characteristics. Check out the explanation:

Men often Covering their Broken Hurts

Lord!, Men do crying???. Maybe that's what occurred to him. Their "Release" most went with some friends and ended the man got drunk. The Point is.., he sometimes reluctant to show feelings of sadness when he broke up with her lover. He felt should always look tough. (yeah..right!! hahaha)

While most of the women burst into tears or vent to friends when they got broken hearted. Similarly, when deciding in love, women usually speak what is and straight out what his heart. The Point is.., women stand up to a sense of sadness while men hold a lot of reactions or feelings. As a result, they accumulate and difficult discarded.

Men Dont Have Many FriendsAren't they??..
In the broken heart "moment", almost all women immediately disclose their Feeling or talked to his closest friends. The friend could be mother, friend, neighbor, Office mate, or even a taxi driver which she took after leaving the boyfriend. Research shows men are often dependent on the emotional closeness to their girlfriend. While women have a million other places besides their lover.

Men more often bury their feelings and trying to convince their self that They're just fine. At least another six months later he realized, and courage to express to his close friends if he wanted to return to his beloved.

Men Hate a New Start Over
Once broke up, the man generally feel a little Happiness n Freedom. They Can go out and seduce many women, hunting for a new lover and others. But after the first date, second, and third, one finally hit a sense of saturation. He also realized that is still a long way to find the same comfort as the first lover.

According to research, women are generally mentally better prepared for the end of relationship while men rarely think the relationship will end. And generally, the man realized how valuable her former lover and how he lost himself after months of breaking up. The result, she was far to recover and it was too late.

Men Stand On Fantasy
Breaking up is also often caused because he feels bored with her lover, same date, same argument, and other things that make for long saturated. Once broken, he thought it would be immediately met and dated many women. Although the dream is really happening but in other side of his mind he missed the intimacy and comfort from his ex-girlfriend.
Research shows, women are generally more quickly recognize that the foundation of a lasting relationship is intimacy. While men are generally more concerned with sex so that eventually they are wrong orientation.

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